User blog comment:Genista882/Mitsuru and Kokoro/@comment-26567684-20190430161720/@comment-26567684-20190430182608

Firstly, most of us tend to focus on falling in love and use the feeling of love to determine the duration of a relationship. Falling in love is easy to do, almost effortless, but losing that loving feeling is not that hard to do, either.

Of course, when a relationship is new, it is fun and enjoyable courting or being courted. In the beginning, we are constantly thinking about the new person in our life, and wanting to spend all of our time together and share new experiences together. We want to show how we feel by getting cards or flowers or just sending a cute text message.

Feelings, however, can be fleeting. No one seems to want to talk about how those loving feelings can fade, that it takes work to keep the love alive, and that choosing to stay in love is a choice we all must make.

Who we love is as much of a choice as it is a feeling. Staying in love takes a commitment. After the rosy glow of the new relationship wears off, we have to make a decision: Do we want to love this person and commit to a relationship together, or are we going to let this person go?

Once we have made the decision that we have found the person we want to be with and commit to, the work begins. A big part of that work is making many other choices.

It is a choice to see the good in our partner every day, rather than focusing on the negative things that bother us. We have to accept them and love them as they are. If we go into a relationship thinking we can change someone, we are setting our relationship and ourselves up to fail. We all have flaws and quirks and are weird in some ways. Accepting those differences is part of love.

We can choose to ignore the petty, irritating small things our partner may do. If our partner forgets to take out the garbage, or leaves the cap off the toothpaste, we can talk about it with them, but we also can accept that this just might be forgetful, and choose to move on. Trying to change our partner into us is one of the biggest relationship mistakes we can make.

When we are unhappy with how things are in our relationship, it is easy to overfocus on what we are not getting from the relationship. Instead, a healthier response is to see what we could be doing for our partner, rather than focusing on what they are not doing for us. We should always try to be supportive of our partner, because we cannot expect anything from our partner that we are not willing to give ourselves.

Another important choice we can make is to choose to remember the reasons why we committed to this person. Our relationship will not always be pleasant and there will be times for serious discussions and disagreement. There will be trying times and even bad times that we will need to work through together. The key to surviving these times is to remember to be respectful, acknowledge our commitment, and work through whatever is at hand together. During these times it really helps to remind ourselves of why we chose to love them in the first place.

Love is all about choices. We choose to see the good, ignore the petty, look for what we could do for our partner, and remember why we love our partner. Choosing to put in the effort to do these things is what love looks like, and with that work comes the wonderful reward of staying in love.

Secondly, Being a parent is a major responsibility. You are in charge of raising an individual to the point of adulthood with the goal of turning him or her into a valuable member of the community. This undertaking requires care, love, understanding and the ability to keep the children on the right path. If done right, it is one of the hardest things you will do, but it also will be one of the most rewarding.

True parents love their children. Love goes beyond taking care of them. It is the concern you have for their future and their present. It is your watchful eye over children who are sick or troubled; the care you give when their feelings are hurt; the time you take out of your schedule to spend with them; and it's the protection that surrounds them and keeps them safe.

Despite their young age and sheltered upbringing where any sentimentality is forbidden, Kokoro and Mitsuru were able to naturally discover the concept of love and commitment themselves to each other, and fought to right to stay together. Despite losing their memories, they retained a degree of their attachment to each other and decided to recommit because their attachment and promise to be together forever was too important to throw away. Plus, although they were understandably scared and shocked upon learning their first pregnancy, they took it all on board and became very excited at becoming parents. They made it their purpose in life to live and care for their children, and give them the life of freedom and choice MitsuKoko were deprived of as kids. Because of their choice to accept their lost past and embrace each other’s pros and cons, they were able to stay happily married and raise four children whom they love dearly and who love them in return.